Finding out your country is one of the most wonderful, brutal, and time consuming process ever. First off, remember that each district is different so if you are a STEP student and are not in district 5100 this may be different for you.
After being accepted in November and filling out the huge final application, you have to wait until January before you even get to chose a country! This personally left me extremely confused on where I wanted to go and doing a lot of research and losing a lot of sleep. Like seriously, it would take me forever 2-3 hours to fall asleep! I thought I wanted to go to Europe for sure but I wanted a slightly longer exchange... basically I was really confused. Then January came and it was time for orientation. I went in to orientation without any clue of where I really wanted to go.
My exchange officer drove the five of us to the 4h camp in Salem, where we were then split up into our cabins, everyone from my club had one of each other in their cabin except for me. I thought this was a good thing because it would force me to socialize with other people outside of my club and help me practice for future situations which I will need to do this. (Like on exchange or running for different offices in FFA or other clubs). We then all headed back to the gym where we got our binders, name tags, sized for the blazers (well long term did, short term gets white polo shirts) and our pictures taken for our business cards. After that we headed to dinner where we ate. After dinner we went back to the gym and were split off into groups then given five minutes to figure out a plan to build the tallest tower out of marshmallows and dry spaghetti noodles. I had a girl in my group who went to an engineering thing over the summer so we believed we were going to win. Then they announced that we weren't allowed to talk. We did pretty good but didn't win. After this we went back for a snack and to take a test. Then we headed back to the gym to talk to the district exchange officers about the countries we were interested in. After that we were sent to bed for a early morning the next morning.
My exchange officer drove the five of us to the 4h camp in Salem, where we were then split up into our cabins, everyone from my club had one of each other in their cabin except for me. I thought this was a good thing because it would force me to socialize with other people outside of my club and help me practice for future situations which I will need to do this. (Like on exchange or running for different offices in FFA or other clubs). We then all headed back to the gym where we got our binders, name tags, sized for the blazers (well long term did, short term gets white polo shirts) and our pictures taken for our business cards. After that we headed to dinner where we ate. After dinner we went back to the gym and were split off into groups then given five minutes to figure out a plan to build the tallest tower out of marshmallows and dry spaghetti noodles. I had a girl in my group who went to an engineering thing over the summer so we believed we were going to win. Then they announced that we weren't allowed to talk. We did pretty good but didn't win. After this we went back for a snack and to take a test. Then we headed back to the gym to talk to the district exchange officers about the countries we were interested in. After that we were sent to bed for a early morning the next morning.
The second day we had to be at breakfast by 7, one of the exchange officers made that very clear the night before. After that we split into groups for classes. We had like 6 or 8 classes with breaks in between, it was long and brutal but filled with a lot of information. After the last class we had dinner and headed back up to the gym for the country fair. A lot of us exchange students believed that the country fair would help us decide exactly where we wanted to go. Reality it really just confused us on where we wanted to go. I was considering countries I didn't even think I would even consider. After the country fair, we listened to past exchange students answering a series of questions of their experience. After that we were sent to bed, but just before my district short term country officer informed us that we needed a decision in the morning. I had some clue of where I wanted to go, it was between Finland, which was where I wanted to go all along and Argentina as my first choices as well as three more options.
The next morning, we had breakfast and then it was time to decide. Sitting there trying to decide was really hard, my brain was going crazy! Should I go with Finland, the country that had been on my list since the time I applied or Argentina? In the end I put down Argentina as my first choice followed by Finland, Brazil, New Zealand, and India. I knew where ever I ended up would be perfect, exchange is how you make it. If you want it to suck, it will suck, but if you make the best out of it everything will be just fine and wonderful. I kept this in mind as I waited and waited forever for a placement.